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Advice please- So today me and my partner split up, we have been together since …

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Advice please-
So today me and my partner split up, we have been together since before my one year old was born..(not my baby’s dad) I love him so much but he just doesn’t understand me! He’s never had a serious relationship and moved in rather quick as I was so ill after birth. Just sometimes when he was in a mood or tired he would fill on ignore and blank out my child. My baby would go to him for cuddles and he would just completely ignore the fact she’s stood in front of him.. It sounds silly but he would communicate with him at all,i tried explaining that when your doing things such as bathing or changing a nappy you need to talk to my daughter while doing it as he’s human and that’s how baby’s learn by listening and copying. I don’t know if that made any sense at all? At the beginning he did so much for my daughter but it slowly just started to stop.. And whenever I would try and talk about my frustrations or how I’m feeling he would just ignore me too and not respond to my feeling.. So anyway it ended up in him taking his stuff and moved out. He didn’t even say goodbye to my daughter she went to him for a cuddle and he just walked out on us.. I know deep down is the right thing to do I gave him the chance to either stay and fight for us and try and make things work or to go and he left.. I don’t want to be with someone who can walk away that easy without looking back.. But it just hurts, I don’t have many friends at all and not much family around here.. So anyone who’s been in the same boat what did you do to take your mind off everything? And cope by being on your own? Thank you xx
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