Can I have a pp please? When I was 13 my auntie blurted out that my ‘dad’ isn’t…

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Can I have a pp please?
When I was 13 my auntie blurted out that my ‘dad’ isn’t my biological one. My mother denied it for aslong as she could,she was an alcoholic then so getting sense out of her was difficult until my ‘dad’ (the person who brought me up) told me the truth himself. My mum told me a story about who my dad was minus the details ‘d.o.b’ she couldn’t even tell me his surname or even his age…they were together 3months and he apparently moved back to Belfast…I have 4siblings from my mum and (stepdad) we were all brought up as a family and we didn’t know any different,once it all come out my (dad) has moved on and disowned me because I’m not his child and my mum alienates me from the family to,cos she has her family (ex husband and 4kids) they go out together and everything and exclude me cos I found out! My stepdad was abusive emotionally and physically to the point I was placed in foster care away from him for a period of time. My mum seems to think all the abuse I took,(he never touched his own kids or her) is acceptable cos she used to occasionally stand in the middle. We had a massive row today because I’ve found an old report from a psychologist where my mum has told them a completely different story about my real dad,so she’s obviously lying somewhere. Now I think I know who he is and this man lives 3doors away,I see him everyday,I’ve taken pictures of the report so I pointed out her lies and she just lied to me again😔 would you approach the man or just leave it? I’m desperate to know where I come from. Me and my partner are having problems because of how much this is affecting me recently,what would you do?xxxx
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