Can I have a private post please has anyone dealt with something like this befor…

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Can I have a private post please has anyone dealt with something like this before I’m hurting inside atm my eldest twos dad havnt seen the since the youngest was 2 days old there now 8 and 5 he was extremely abusive social services wouldn’t even entertain supervised contact and he’s currently in jail for attempting to kill his last gf. I met my fiancé when my youngest was 1 he took them on and brought them up as his own they have recently asked to start calling him dad his mum nanna and his gran grandma because we’ve jus had a little girl together and we obviously call them that in regards to her his mum and gran said its completely right they do and have done for the past year now. They used to go to his grans with him all the time she used to buy them all sorts chocolate ect and a Christmas present each every year for the past 5 Christmass his mum used to have them every week for tea and he used to be so close to them. Our daughter is now one his mum has had her every week a few times and completely stopped havin my eldest the past month or so his grandma has said there’s not enough room at her house so if he comes he can bring our daughter but my eldest havnt been round for nearly a year. She turned around and said she’d giving my youngest 60 pound in the card this year but won’t be buying my eldest two a Christmas present because we have to many kids now (I’m due on the 27th of December) and my partner will be getting 60 of her to. The relationship between my partner and my eldest two have drifted since my youngest have been born I understand he’s completely protective but he kept telling people there doin his head in because my middle one used to get a bit jealous and want to sit on him to when he had hold of our daughter. They’d always be “crowding him when he was around her” and all the bike rides and trips out he used to take them on have stopped fully if he takin one of the kids it’s our youngest and that’s all. My middle daughter got conjunctivitis this week and we explained to stay away from our 1 year old but of course she kept forgetting and my one year old kept climbing on her when she was lay on the floor. my one year old woke up with a gungy eye this morning soon as he came home from work he started ranting how he’s sick of my 5 year old because she should no better she didn’t listen and it’s her fault his daughter had it he made it out like she’d done it maliciously. He then went on to say she takes the mick with her that he seen her takin her blanket of her then giving it back then takin it again I said bloody hell there kids she’s newly 5 she loves her sister she wouldn’t be snatching the blanket to upset her he thinks different she should no better. It’s a joke he’s had enough of it. Iv jus beeb in the bath and he was Sat downstairs with my 5 year old and our 1 year old, all of a sudden my 5 year old came running up upset I said what’s goin on she said she picked up the chocolates he had to count how many were left (they’d been sharing them) he then said right and give them to our 1 year old him and left her out sayin she was bein nosey and cheeky. I don’t no if this is me but I feel like my kids have all of a sudden turned into the black sheep of the family and treated different am I wrong?
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