Can I have a private post please. I just want to ask there opinions on access with there children’s fathers. When does it become acceptable to say enough is enough in regards to there father walking in and out? Or do people think its fair to give them chances if they want them again? In nearly three years my children’s fathers had them 6 weekends, he goes months without seeing them while he jumps from partner to partner and provides and cares for there children, after a few months of dealing with my children cry asking to see there dad is it alright for me to say no to him walking back in there life’s until he proves he’s serious about sticking around?