Can I have a private post please.
I was with my partner we was so happy he took on my children I took on his a year down the line he has left me and I found out I’m pregnant I told him he said he was willing to support me what ever I choose to do. Now he’s saying I need to get rid he’s not ready for another he has a son nearly 2. I have a daughter 4 and a son 2 and I dont feel ready for another but I can’t have an abortion I just can’t do it. I’m so scared that I could be a single mum to three children and I’m loosing my mind.
By the time the baby would be here my daughter would be 5 son still 2 and a new born and alone I don’t know if I would be able to do it.
I dont know what advice I’m asking for but I just know it’s a big shock this baby was not planned and he’s made it clear he will want nothing to do with the baby now, but at the same time I can’t go through an abortion to make him happy when mentally it would destroy me.
Has anyone elce been in a situation like this had your baby and it been ok, because right now my head is all over the place and I’ve got the drs today to confirm the pregnancy should I talk to the Dr I just dont know.