Can I have a private post please
My fiance and I have been together 12 years we have one child together and had a miscarriage a few years ago, we had issues conceiving (baby 2 took over 5 years). The problem is I want to adopt a child in the future and he doesnt. We are supposed to be getting married next year and I dont know whether to postpone it or what, I’ve always wanted to adopt from being young and he’s been honest with me and given his reasons which I respect him for but I honestly dont know if I can get married knowing this is something he doesn’t want. When we talk about it now he shuts down and I feel like I cant bring it up without feeling guilty (he doesn’t make me feel bad but I know he doesn’t want this and feel bad for making him feel bad for not wanting it). I just don’t know what to do, we’ve never had problems like this before.
Help from anyone here will be much appreciated.