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Can I have another private place please or though you probably all know who I am…

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Can I have another private place please or though you probably all know who I am I’m the one who has a son who been devil worshiping and I just want you to say that we are still in the middle of getting him help I have another problem that’s very hard to deal with it’s to do with my son’s dad he’s an alcoholic and my 18 year old son has had to move in with him because he won’t stop drinking he’s falling over he’s lied and said he’s been mugged because he’s come back with black eyes. My 18 year old son doesn’t have a lie he is petrified to leave his dad just in case something bad happens to him and he ends up dying my 15 year old son is also scared because his dad won’t stop drinking and the same with my 13 year old son but my 18 year old son does a hell of a lot for him he tidied up for him on a daily basis make sure he’s say carries into bed after his passed out on the sofa cooks cleans you name it although he does drink a lot he can still function as in cook meals and hold a conversation even if it is drunk talk I’m So Worried as my 18 year old son now is looking more and more and more depressed each day I’ve asked him to come back home and move in with me but he says he can’t because he needs to be there for his dad just in case his dad has a full and ends up dying I’ve spoken to his dad many of times about his drinking problem and all he keeps telling me is I know I know I know he goes to AA meetings but yet when he walks out the first thing he does his buy a bottle of vodka how can I help my son who’s 18 have a better life than what he’s having Now he’s lost all his confidence he doesn’t go out at all he has no friends because he’s his dad’s main carer his dad does work and can hold a job down but because my son’s been in the house for so long looking after his dad all his confidence has gone and it’s so upsetting other as a mother to see my son this way he’s such a handsome young man he has a heart of gold and will do anything and I mean anything for anyone please can anyone advise me on what I can do just to make his life a little better I’ve tried everything regarding his dad and his dad just don’t want to listen he’s very selfish and doesn’t care as long as he’s got a bottle in his hand that’s all that matters to him his son’s even broke down and cried to him and begged him to stop drinking but he still carries on please can you give me some advice on just how to manage the situation and tips on what I could do just to help my son out that little bit more to thank you
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