Can you post for me please? Basically I need to know if I’m making the wrong d…

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Can you post for me please?

Basically I need to know if I’m making the wrong decision?
I had a baby over 14months ago now but the relationship ended soon after I gave birth, I met a man not long after and found comfort and trust in him but 10 months down the line I find out I’m pregnant, he assaulted me not long ago the police are dealing with it I pressed charges and going through with it but this isn’t the first time he’s done it, he plays a lot of head games more than anything!
I want to know would I be a bad person if I didn’t keep the baby? I’m not far at all about 5/6weeks but I don’t feel like I’ll cope and I feel like it’s just another hold he will have on me, I never ever thought I’d be in this situation and I hate the thought of an abortion but it feels like the only way out, have any of you been through something similar? Am I doing the right thing going through with this? I’m only 19 years of age and I still have a life right now but it feels like if I go through with the pregnancy all that will change! I really don’t want to be that bad person.


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  1. You poor girl. So much pressure. I think you should book an appointment first thing to speak with your doctor or nurse at your local surgery. They’ll be able to advise you on the options. You should never feel trapped into doing something you don’t want to do. Makes me angry to read that he’s assaulted you, especially while carrying his child. He’s no man! I hope you make the right decision for you. Good luck ❤

  2. No you wouldn’t be a bad person. Just be prepared for t b e possible feelings of guilt after you go through with this.
    Not everyone does suffer from guilt or regret but it can happen and yes that’s speaking from not only my own experience but some other friends who have gone through this as well

  3. No, you won’t be a bad person. Think about your child and potentially future child/ren. Do you really want them growing up around that? I always say to people in your situation, it’s not a child you get stuck with for 20 years, it’s the father/mother, so choose wisely and do what’s right for you xxx

  4. Thinking with ur brain engaged does not make u a bad person…. Ur young but sounds to me like you u ken what’s right ! Dinae let anybody treat u badly u deserve so much more x

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