Could i get another post please?
My daughters dad has been in n out of her life shes nearly 6.
How the hell do you deal with the blame game? Am forever getting messages about how its all my fault when it comes to my daughter seeing her dad.. i always get in the way etc. Its just utter bs but i cant shift the feeling of maybe it is my fault.. all ive done is try n her dad is a bloody nightmare to deal with.. were both ridiculously stubborn .. i just feel our daughter is completely in the middle .. but there is just no way out. Am severely anxious when giving her ovrr to him due to past issues. So i dont trust him. He lies. Doesnt tell me what hes got planned etx. Hes now refusing money for her and am just at my whits ends with it all now.. he hasnt seen her since the start of decemeber and the only reason hes popped up is cause of money n how he cant pay .. ive done nothing but fight for my baby n whats right for her but is it right for her.. 😴 parenting ia so hard!!