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Could i have a private post please. I don’t know what im aiming for here but I’v…

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Could i have a private post please. I don’t know what im aiming for here but I’ve been so heart broken about this. PS sorry for the really long post.

Two weeks ago i found out that my daughters dad had raped a 16 year old( he’s 26). My daughters dad has three other children with other women. He’s currently in prison awaiting court in a few weeks and i know my daughter is only 3 next month but everytime i think of this, it brings me to tears. Me and him haven’t been together since i was 4 month pregnant and he hasn’t been there since.he used to abuse me and sexually assault me and a few others. I’ve just git out of a situation of sexual assault so i dotn want to come forward about what he did to me. Im only 20 and wont be able to cope with it again mentally. He’s met her three times when she was two weeks old till a month old. He hasnt out anything towards her up bringing.

Im so nervous and scared on how im meant to tell her who he is and what he is when she turns round to me and asks me why she hasnt got a dad and who he is. How do i break this to her. how do i tell her. shes going to be heart broken and i really hope she doesn’t want to go see him. I know she’s going to be 10-11 she he comes out of prison. Im provably over thinking this but i needed to vent and if any advise can be given please do. 😭😭
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