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Could I please get a pp, So I know in my mind the right answer but there’s a bi…

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Could I please get a pp,
So I know in my mind the right answer but there’s a big story here so please bare with me.
I’ve been married 5 years.
We’ve not had an easy marriage. We have laughed, cried, lost and loved through it.
We have a handful of kids…
And I love this man, he’s the father to my kids and has been a respectable dad to his step kids who don’t have anything to do with their biological dad’s ( their choice not ours)
Recently I made him move out, he and my eldest ( eldest being 😎 had a fight… where my eldest physically attacked him and he went to hit back ( never did though ) so obviously my son came first.

Fast forward a month or two and he sees the kids as often a possible.
We live within a mile of each other so he sees them mon, weds, Fri- sun … stays over at the weekend to give me a hand… we have spoken about trying to sort out relationship out…

However,
He’s addicted to games!!!, like pc games… I can be busy and in agony and he’s playing his games… when he’s supposed to be here helping me and seeing his kids.

He always calls me names such as idiot, slut, retard and more.

I asked him tonight after 4 hours of silence what was going to happen to our marriage- he put his hands over his ears and started saying lalalala … then I asked him later on, he fake yawned and told me I was boring.

He then proceeded to tell me he can’t be bothered he’s here to see the kids, I’m boring him and he’s bored ( kids are asleep)

Am I right in thinking this is the end of the road?

I’m not fussed about being on my own with my beautiful babies, but silly as it sounds I don’t want the stigma of a young mum that couldn’t even keep her man happy or the thought of people thinking I did something wrong.

What would you do?
Please don’t be nasty as my mind says divorce but my heart says there’s something more going on with him such as depression as he’s changed so much so rapidly. But he won’t talk to me 😕
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