Could I please have a private post? I was in a domestic violent relationship for…
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Could I please have a private post? I was in a domestic violent relationship for 15 months. Every time we argued to the point he hit me he’d tell me I would push him too far one day and he would kill me. I once tried to end it so he got in my face and made me tell him I wanted to be with him and when I did he told me If he can’t have me no one can and that he’d kill me and we’ll as our children because if he lost me he’d have nothing else to loose and that I’d never have another man because he’d have people watching my house and I really belive he would. On the 27/11/17 we got into a really bad argument, he punched in the face and back of the head in front of our 2 year old, then went on to tell me that “today is the day, today is the day you die. You’ve pushed me too far” tried to bite my ear off, tried to stab me, strangled me so hard my teeth cut into my lip and I was blacking in and out of conciousnes and then punched me in the face almost knocking me off of my feet while I was holding our 9 month old. My nose burst so bad my jumper and two bath towels as well as me and my son, my living room floor and bath room sink was all caked in blood. He picked up the towels and threatened to hit me over the head with a paint tin if I didn’t take my jumper off then tried to take it off me which again was strangling me with. CSI demanded access to my house the following morning and police escorted me from my house to my dads, fit panic alarms and gave me on to carry and told me I’m not safe to go back to my house. Ever since he stalked me, broke into my house to see if I was there and was watching my dads house. He eventually handed himself in once he realised he was wanted by the police who told me he could be looking at attempted murder. Alls ive heard is how serious this is and everything about it is hugh risk. He got remanded the following morning (01/12) he appeared in court today even though I was asked to go to court I never got asked about appearing today. Apparently it has now been dropped at an assault. I’m absolutely distraught. I’ve had no say in this whatsoever! He’s back in court on the 20th for sentencing with a chance he could be realised with just bail conditions. I really do fear for my life, I’ve been kicked out of my home not that I could ever bring my self to go back their I’ve not even cleaned the blood up. I’m 18 with two kids under 3 and just wanted to know if anyone knew of any charities that could help with housing, or any legal advice to make me have a voice in court. Please I’m so desperate. I had a victim support meeting who told me I’m not normal and needed to go get medication. I’ve dropped to a size 4 (7 stone), I’m in a real bad way 😭 I’d of given up a long long time ago if it wasn’t for these babies!x
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