Could you please post this? I’m feeling a little weird and I just need to know…
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Could you please post this?
I’m feeling a little weird and I just need to know if it’s normal basically or if being a selfish cow. Sorry it’s long, I’m 26 and have a fiance and 2 kids I’m so happy and I love my family more than anything! I have a really funny feeling my best friend is talking to or somethings going on with a guy and she’s not telling me because I used to be with him. Now this was when I was 17/18 and I completely fell in love with him but nobody but my best friend knew, (it’s a long story as to why we couldn’t tell anyone but it’s irrelevant to this story and it would take me a while to explain) I fell pregnant with his child and had an abortion and it ended there. I’m not saying I regret that things finished but am I right to be annoyed that I think my friends going behind my back and seeing or talking to him? I think deep deep down I’ll always have something for him, I don’t want to be with him but I don’t think I can watch my friend with him.. i didn’t even know she had him on facebook until he liked a picture of us both I uploaded yesterday (i don’t have him on facebook) I had a look at her profile pictures and he’s liked every single one, also his name came up in conversation the other night while we were having a drink with friends and I caught a really weird look on her face. Please tell me to slap some sense into myself if I’m being pathetic, I just can’t stop thinking about it now.
Thankyou!
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Your friend is keeping it from You because she doesnt want to hurt you.
This was almost 10 years ago, are you sure there are no feelings there ( it sounds like there is)
I think you are normal to feel something but let her be happy , you have your life now!!
Give yourself a slap and tell yourself to get grip!
Personally, it would upset me and I would be mad at her but that’s just me! I would never go with someone that my friends have been with and would expect the same back, I thought that was the rules tbh 😂
You want the truth…your being greedy, you basically want to have your cake and eat hers too, just get over it you have a family, concentrate on them
Just ask her straight up. I would be disappointed.. shouldn’t matter how long ago it was.. She shouldn’t be keeping it a secret from you if it’s not that big of a deal
Friends do this.
You have a family now. You need to leave him in the past.
Shitty friend though. Maybe let her go 😳