Could you post this privately please?
Right so I’m completely stuck on what to do. Heads mashed big time. Found out my fiancé and this girl at work have been sending dirty messages and pics. I’m absolutely broken because we have 2 kids and are getting married in just over a year..I’ve took my engagement ring off and as he. However I just don’t know what to do! I’ve practically got no fight in me whatsoever, he’s fighting so hard to keep us going and says he isn’t ready to let me go yet. He wants us to work together slowly to see if we can repair. His nana always used to say “in my day, if something was broken we’d repair it, not throw it away”
But…ive started getting feelings for someone at work. He’s my shift manager 🙈 my friend at work says she can see flirting between us, the way we looks at each other etc. But now I just don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if he feels the same way or if it’s just harmless flirting to make the day go by quicker. He makes me smile so much, I miss him when he’s not there. I don’t even wanna come home from work half the time. I just really don’t know what to do at all. We’ve got a 3 and 1 year old to think about too, our 3 year old is being referred for Autism testing too so it just makes everything much more harder 😢 no bashing please, just advice, has anyone been in this situation? Thanks x