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Hello, may I have a private post please:

I have a residency order for a 5 yo. Over night stays with the biological parents is forbidden until the order dissolves (at 18 this states she must stay with me until then) I am trying to apply for her first passport, and asked the biological mother for permission as well as her passport details and grandparents. (The father is not on the birth certificate but has parental rights from DNA) he has no objection to the passport issue. However the biological mother is stating she will fight to stop this happening and a trip to Disney land later in the year. Please bare in mind she hasn’t seen or contacted the child since August 17, and is arguing that we have not been committed to taking the child to contacts with siblings, when we haven’t been contacted about any arranged visits or sibling contacts since August last year. (I have proof of all contact made, or lack of) I am going to our solicitor on Monday, but has anyone been through similar, I’ve spoken to the passport office and tried every avenue so far. Thank you
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10 thoughts on “Hello, may I have a private post please: I have a residency order for a 5 yo. …

  • Also, she has lived with us since she was 1, and was in care for months prior to that.

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  • Is the no social worker or anything you can speak I know it would be hard not having you child but she actually doesn’t seem to bother? Who would stop their child going to Disney land come on. No advice really but I hope you get it sorted xx

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  • If she hasn’t had contact in that long, its a grudge think. Juvenile. I think you would need to talk to a social worker or case worker. But I dont see how she could have any say in this.

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  • I have no advice unfortunately but just wanted to wish you all the best and hope you manage to get the lo to Disney land. What a shame she can’t see that the kid is missing out. Sounds like shes doing it out of jealousy and spite x

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  • You can apply to the birth certificate office to get a birth certificate for all the people u need. And send your order in to prove parental responsibility- I had similar- but luckily Mum was happy to help xx

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  • Seems to me she is trying to punish you, but in return punishing the child. If she has given up her rights… (as it would seem) why does she have a say?

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  • You need to apply for a specific issue order Hun. Should be pretty straight forward.

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