Hey can i have a pp please x My partner has 2 boys from a previous relationship…

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Hey can i have a pp please x
My partner has 2 boys from a previous relationship (although he believes the youngest isn’t his and she won’t do a DNA test to prove otherwise). We’ve been together for over three years now and his ex will not let him have the boys by himself and its always on her terms and she always has to be around when he sees them. We have a child of our own now and she’s 6 months old, his ex will not tell his son’s that they have a sister and won’t allow them to have anything to do with her. She won’t let me be around the boys either. She threatens him a lot by saying she’ll stop him from seeing them if he doesn’t tell her what she wants to hear/ do what she wants etc. She’s been like this our entire relationship and it doesn’t look like she’s ever gunna change. My partner messages her all the time asking to see the boys and sometimes she just ignores him and then says he doesn’t bother trying (he works nights as well by the way).
I guess I’m just looking for some advice on what to do as it’s really unfair that the kids miss out on seeing each other just because she doesn’t like me or like the fact that me and my partner are together/live together/ now have a baby.
Btw she refuses to do mediation and she doesn’t listen to his mum or sister either (she’s really close with them)
Thanks x
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