Hi. can i have a private post please for my friend (she is terrified someone wil…

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Hi. can i have a private post please for my friend (she is terrified someone will know who she is). hi. i need advice. been with my husband for 7 years. we have twins together but he has adult kids from a previous marriage. we all got on great, his kids spent lots of time with me and classed me as their stepmum throughout their teens. however we moved to scotland for his work 4 years ago and since we moved they turned nasty and jealous. we invited them to stay whenever they want but when they came life was hell. whenever husband wasn’t about they were threatening to ruin us for me stealing him away from their hometown in england and told the little ones they weren’t their brothers and upset them a lot and he didn’t believe it happened. it put on strain but i forgave them and we started speaking, however since they’ve distanced themselves. i put in so much effort to keep in touch. i loved them like my own, I’ve known them almost all their life.involved in school plays, helped them move house, with relationship advise even sat with them holding their hair when they were drunk underage when they ran away from their mums house after a row. last year they started slagging me off on social media and fell out with their dad over money. we didn’t have money spare so when they were wanting to use him as bank of dad and he explained he couldn’t help them they started being funny. then came the public posts calling him deadbeat. he was so cut up, i messaged them saying please don’t do this he’s ur dad he loves you, if he had th money he could give it don’t make a public fool of him when he’s genuine and loves you so they turned on me. it escalated to the point that when his mum died two year ago and they nor other grandkids were in the will they tried to contest it and it led to a big falling out as hubby went behind my back and just handed them what was left by his mum, he didn’t take a penny. then everything was ok, but they never spoke to me and not to our two little ones. i found out about the money and went mad. we almost split up. anyway I’m still not speaking to them after they said my kids will never ever be anything to do with them as they are b*st*** and they wished we were all dead. my husband forgave them and still has contact (they’re still his kids so its his decision) however i will never speak to them , removed them from all social media etc as i am appalled they have got away with it and wished their brothers dead. fast forward to now and still they slag us off online for everyone to see, well I’ve found out they’re planning on coming to stay!? like nothing has gone on. i am livid and said i won’t accommodate them. he said he will book a hotel for a week. I’m not happy. am i in the wrong? my family are outraged and don’t think they should even think of wanting to stay like nothing has happened and i don’t want them in our little ones lives after the horrific names they’ve been called. our kids haven’t seen them in 3 years now so they’re grown adult strangers. what should i do? is it wrong for me to make this decision i feel like my hubby has no respect for us allowing them to abuse us as they have and think they can just stroll back in like nothing is happening. i feel like just leaving my hubby as i can’t take much more tbh
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