Hi can i have a private post please.
Im just looking on some advice on what to do about my sons dad. We split up in january and he hasnt spent one day with Our son hes had him overnight once and seen him around once a week for about 40 minutes. He told me that hes working all the time so i just let it go. Now ive found out hes in a relationship with a girl hes been with her since march. But was at my house last sunday asking to get back together&trying to kiss me. He has given me no money for our son (even though hes apparently working all the time) he didnt buy him nothing for his first birthday or easter. His family have not come to see my son either. He also has 2 other children to 2 other women he dosent have contact with.
I just want to know wether i should stop him seeing his son as he never turns up when he says he will hes let him down so many times dosent seem bothered. I am not bothered in the slightest about him being in a new relationship ive told him this in the past an just to be honest but hes lied all this time.
He hasnt seen my son for the last 3 weeks and hasnt been in contact with me to ask how he is but as soon as he knew i found out he was in a new relationship he was round in 10 minutes. I dont want to stop him seeing his son but he dosent bother anyway an dosnt provide for him or benifit his life whatsoever