Hi darl can I have a private post..
I have been with my partner for 8 years in November, we have a 1 and a half year old son and a baby girl on the way. All throughout our relationship Iv caught him sexting other girls sending pictures ect. I’ve told him that if it happens again I would leave. I found out on Friday he is on a dating site I found a convo with an older lady sending pictures, asking her to meet him on a weekend.. he states he has never met up with anyone and wouldn’t but I was gutted! He plays golf every weekend so I’m not with him on weekends. He tried to be affectionate with me but I’m pregnant and don’t have a sex drive right now so he said he does it because he needs sexual attention and that it’s just talk.. my question is I want to leave but I can’t. I love him so much.. but unfortunately it keeps happening.. I swore I was leaving and he was devastated. He said it really scared him! But I can’t go through this again.. other than this our relationship is great. I just can’t deal with the heartbreak of him talking to girls the way he does.. his amazing with our son too. I am stuck I don’t know what to do or think. He swears he won’t do it again because he really got hurt when I was going to leave but I can’t trust him..