Hi ppp, sorry this may be long just need some advice of how to finally get away from this man.
I have split up with my lg dad who I have been with for 8 years, although he has still been living with his “ex” the whole time. I have found out so many lies over the years and always tried to break up with him but he knows how to say the right things and I’ve always been stupid to get back with him. In the 2 and a half years since my daughter was born I have tried so hard to have the family unit we deserve but again more lies and no communication from him. He just pleases himself when he’s coming to see us. He’s had me charged with assault even though I did not cause the injurys he had (he’s pathetic enough to inflict these himself) I could go on and on with a list of things he has done.
Saturday night we had another argument because he lied again and every time he turns it round to me, he will never admit when he has done wrong even though we have spoken about the same thing over and over again. I feel like I’m on repeat everytime we argue.
He has demanded (not asked) he takes her out for tea tonight, we had plans but he has made me change them.
How do I get proper visits organised for her as I really don’t want to have to keep seeing him when I think he’s actually finally letting me go as there has been no crying, begging or threatening suicide because I’ve ended it. I know we can’t agree to set days because he doesn’t stick to them, there’s always something more important.
Thanks in advance😘