Hiya, please can I have a private post in the mums private chat group?
Looking for advice about grandparenting… my mum occasionally has my two kids overnight but she insists on my eldest (aged 2) sleeping in her bed instead of the spare bed. I’ve told her repeatedly that this is completely inappropriate and unnecessary but she does it anyway. I don’t think she does it to be weird, she does it because she’s lonely and having marriage problems so her husband usually sleeps in the spare room unless they have family visiting. She ignores most of the other rules I set as well which means my daughter comes home with a spoilt attitude and expects the same when she gets home. I only let her babysit when there’s no other choice because she doesn’t respect me as a parent. I don’t have anyone else to ask so it’s take it or leave it really.
How would you feel about it and how much would you push for her to stop?