I Am A BDSM Dom It Doesn’t Mean I Beat My Woman

I would like to raise awareness of BDSM. I am a TPE Dom which means Total power exchange which basically means I have complete control and authority over my submissive (sub), partner/play thing. If you are a real Dom, then this is the only way to prove it(in my opinion)…

Dominance isn’t about sex.

A Dom, sub relationship isn’t about bondage and toys.

TPE isn’t about keeping a sex slave.

Dominance is being there for her.

Dominance is working through her meltdowns.

Dominance is accepting her, especially when she won’t accept herself.

Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love her.

Dominance is tucking her in at night.

Dominance is telling her no.

Dominance is quieting her demons.

Dominance is being her bastion of strength.

Dominance is shrugging off her anger and frustration when you do things for her own good.

Dominance is encouraging her.

Dominance is comforting her in the middle of the night when she’s had a nightmare.

Dominance is guiding her.

Dominance is building her.

Dominance is love.

If you are in a sub/dom relationship or you are thinking about getting into the life style make sure you set boundaries, never do anything you aren’t happy with.

A dom who beats and uses without consent is not a dom/sub relationship it is abuse.

Being in the BDSM scene is not for everyone and is not as sick and twisted as people make out, in my eyes it is two people with the same fetishes acting out their desires.

I love my little sub and she loves her protective big daddy, we are very happy together and I do not cause her any pain that she doesn’t want.

If you would like to share your own story or would like to raise awareness please email us at mumsadviceltd@outlook.com