I knew my partner would flip when I told him I was pregnant again and he did. It…
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I knew my partner would flip when I told him I was pregnant again and he did. It took me a week to build up the courage to tell him because I was scared of his reaction. He’s adamant that I need to have an abortion and he hasn’t changed his stance a week later, he said it’s both our decision not just mine (I agree) but when I’m 100% against abortions and he really doesn’t want a baby, what do we do? I can’t have an abortion :'( I told him all this and he’s so annoyed and angry still, it’s like he hates me. I feel like he’s gonna split up with me if I keep the baby, but he said he won’t/can’t as I’ll have his two babies?
He told me not to tell the midwife/doctor (even though I’m high risk and have had 2 miscarriages this year already) until I’m 14+ weeks as he doesn’t want the agro of all the scans and me being a mess like the last 2 times. I can’t not tell anyone?! He said he’s not speaking about it until we have confirmation it’s a proper pregnancy (aka I’ve not lost the baby again)
Then he had a go at me saying people would 100% agree with everything he’s saying, I’m ridiculous and selfish; who gets pregnant 3 times in a year, spends more of the year pregnant than not, has a baby despite him saying we’re/he’s not ready. He said I’m obsessed with constantly getting pregnant so I use babies to occupy me from facing my past (lies!)
I even asked him if he’s reacting like this (angry with me/hates me) for getting pregnant or if he’s reacting like this because he’s scared because of our 2 miscarriages, he said it’s because we’re not ready and I’m selfish etc, I need to concentrate on him and our 2 children first rather than having another baby.
What do I do? I feel so alone and heartbrokenđź’” x
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History;
– been with my partner for 5 years
– two children aged 6 and 1
– I got caught on the pill with 6yo, she’s not my partners
– took 8 months to conceive my 1yo, he was planned and is my partners
– have had 2 miscarriages both this year (may and october) got caught on the coil first time round and second time partner was fine with no contraception but we weren’t actively trying
– got pregnant again this month, between 6-9 weeks pregnant atm I think as I had no period between last miscarriage and positive test (went on pill 2 weeks after miscarriage but must have got caught in them 2 weeks) x
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