I really need some help and advice my head is all over the bit. A few weeks ago …

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I really need some help and advice my head is all over the bit. A few weeks ago I took poorly and it’s affected my contraceptive and I have just found out I am pregnant again. It’s such a big shock to me because I didn’t plan on having any more and me and my partner had decided that was it for us. We had our family and we were happy with that. I found out and waited a couple of days for me to get the courage to tell him what had happened and first of all he said ‘get rid of it’ his words. Then tonight he has said well am just going to have to deal with it but you want you can deal with it, don’t be expecting me to be doing anything am not the one wanting it.
I don’t know what to do for the best, abortion is not an option but he wants to still live together and us be a couple but then he is refusing to help with the baby at all.
I don’t know if I should just end the relationship with him now and bring up the baby on my own. And that will give the other kids time to adjust to him not being here before the baby arrives or should I keep my family together and do everything for the baby myself and end up resenting him because I know if I ever did need to ask him for help he wud tell me well u wanted it not me so get on with it and we end up splitting up anyways. I am 100% certain there is only going to be one out come of this relationship and that is it ending but it’s the question of wen it’s going to happen
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