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Ladies Stop Being So Weak You Got This

I want everyone who’s out there crying over a man to read this.

I was diagnosed stage 3 of breast cancer when I was six months pregnant with my son, my life changed forever after that❗ After my son was born his dad walked right out my life, He didn’t give two fucks that I was dying, 😓 he had more important things he had in mind as far as his life.

I had only had my son home for a week… could only hold him with my left arm because I had my breast removed TWO DAYS BEFORE. I could barely feed him but I DID IT…I could barely change him BUT I DID it… yes I cried… yes I screamed… I BEGGED god 🙏🏼 to not let me go through all this at one time…but I had to fight it!

I could barely feed my damn self. I almost didn’t make it through the first week. But look at me now 6 weeks on still fighting, still breathing and still being an amazing um to my awesome son. If I can do it with nobody by my side I sure as hell know you women can also!

Stop being so weak. Stop letting people see you guys go crazy over someone who DOESNT give a damn about u! I had to deal with my man leaving me not caring I barely had much time left. But it’s okay! Shit happens! Stay strong! Because now I’m smiling and almost done with radiation and will have both of my breasts back soon. The crying is over! I’ve never felt stronger in my life.

Be strong ladies, be brave and most importantly be the best mum you can be, you got this girl.

Written by the amazingly strong Bianca Rodriguez

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