Looking for advice. So it will be my little boys fathers birthday soon and I’m …

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Looking for advice. So it will be my little boys fathers birthday soon and I’m in two minds whether to buy him something or not. He recently stopped all contact with my son and didn’t see him for almost you weeks. This has recently changed and he has slightly stepped up and seen him twice in last 2 weeks and has plans to see him again Tuesday. However he provides no maintenance and currently owes me 210 which I lent out of my child’s Christmas fund a couple of months back to pay a fine to prevent him going to jail. This doesn’t include another 265 he owes me for the phone bill I took out for him whilst together. The thought of buying him something kills me especially knowing I’m providing for my child myself and I’ve had to pick up extra shifts to make back up the Christmas money he’s refused to pay back. However he’s still his dad and I don’t want to look spiteful by not getting him something. Since splitting I’ve never had anything of him from my son..not for Christmas, my birthday or mothers day..yet I got him something both for Christmas and fathers day regardless. Looking for opinions on what I should do xx


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