My partner has recently inherited a decent amount of money, he wants to give ha…
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My partner has recently inherited a decent amount of money, he wants to give half to his ex wife who he was with for eight years,and has two children with. He says she needs a tummy tuck as the two children they had were 10 pounds plus in weight, and he always told her when he gets the money he will pay for it as it happened as a result of the children.. However I’m pregnant with his child and there is no mention of using any of this money towards baby stuff, its all caused a huge argument and I kicked him out as i feel we come second. Does anyone think him paying for cosmetic for his ex is selfish?
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Considering its something she is going to benefit from and not the children he has with her I’d go mad 😂 thats just me though…
Tell him not to stop there get her a new pair of tits & to have her vagina tightened as well no doubt that will be a bit baggy having a couple 10lb kids pushed threw that, get her a new wardrobe all done for the next fella she gets with.
Silly bastard he is, is he right in his head?!
He needs to get his priorities sorted paying for cosmetic surgery for his ex pay for her a gym membership & slimming world get her off her lazy arse good diet & exercise we all have baby weight to loose having children we don’t all get our partners or exes to pay for cosmetic surgery silly bitch she is for expecting it!!
I can’t be the only crazy bitch who would assume he still wanted her or something and would think he was trying to buy his way back into her life?!
Ill probably get bashing for it but it’s his money, he can do whatever the heck he likes with it whether you like it or not. I mean I can understand you don’t like the fact he’s giving it to his ex for cosmetic surgery but kicking him out is not really solving the problem here is it?
I assure you if my fiance was giving his ex a large amount of money for a cosmetic procedure hed no longer be my fiance! If the money was for the kids or something to benefit the kids I’d agree but I’m sure it’ll make no difference to them if there mother has a flat stomach or not!!
I’d understand if he was giving half the money to his kids but to his ex wife for a tummy tuck 😂 I would be going apeshit!!
If he made you a promise like this, then you split up, would you want him to honour it ???
My husband and I have separated. When we did, he left me the minibus we purchased from his dad’s inheritance, so I could transport our children around safely !!!
I recently came into some inheritance, now we’re not together, I would have had the right to keep it I suppose, however I’ve just spent more than half purchasing a new car for him, as the one he has was old and wearing out !!!
Now, at least I know my children are safer when travelling with him, he is able to work and is happier.
Surely, if its money you didn’t have, then you’re not loosing half, you’re gaining half ????
Just maybe need to look outside of the box, as actually, it’s none of your business really !!
But hes made other promises to her too that he hasn’t kept though….you know in sickness and in health ..till death do us part and loving each other as long as they both shall live … surely one more won’t matter 🤣🤣..yes i do think it’s selfish ..and he must have a screw loose if he wants to give his ex all that cash… either that or he’s a very very good guy …hope it all works out for you and baby
To be honest it’s his money and his choice !!! I think it’s lovely he has a care for the mother of his children and shows the kids how to grow up probably and their mom and dad get on !!! It shows he’s grateful and keeps a promise !! And to be honest do you really think he won’t be spending a penny on yours no doubt if he cares so much for his ex like this you and your child will be the apple of his eye !! But that’s my opinion
A decent tummy tuck is around £6000-£10000 if not more depending how much “flab” she’s got and which surgeon she sees, is he actually deranged giving his EX that kind of money, yes he made a promise so fucking what, she’s not a child and a pinky promise doesn’t bloody matter. Can you imagine how much of a mug you’re going to look when rumours start going round about it all. I personally would have done same and kicked off big time. If my partner tried giving his ex 10 grand for a tummy tuck I’d be off like lighting!
Sounds like he still wants her if you ask me!! Why would he want to do that it doesn’t benefit the kids in anyway!! She wanna get off her ass and exercise etc like we all have to after having kids 🖕 anyway I think you have a right to go mad because I bloody would and I’d also pack he’s bags!! Hope your ok tho x
Looking from another point of view (i thought nice hes kept his word) but actually….what men do you know thatd pay thousands for their ex to look good?!! It is odd….have you been together long?? Did he leave her for you?
Could go a couple years in a row to an amazing family holiday, such as, disney world but nah… ex needs/wants a tummy tuck 😂🙈
No chance in hell would I let my partner give his ex even £1 of the money for a tummy tuck! If it’s something for his kids then yes but her getting that done doesn’t benefit the kids. They aren’t together so him saying that years ago when they were really isn’t relevant when your having his baby and want to prepare for the arrival .
The only way my husband would give his ex money would be so she vanished of the face of the earth never to be seen again not for a tummy tuck! Takes 2 to tango she didn’t have to open her legs and have children but she did so she should deal with the consequences of that!
That is so wrong as that’s the consequences of having children. All 3 of mine has ruined my body but that was my choice to have them. He should definitely give her money for his children’s future that he has with her but not for her. Think you are within your rights xx
Yeah I don’t understand why he would pay for a tummy tuck on the other hand if he said he wanted it for the kids (swimming lessons,clothes,school stuff) that’s understandable . Tell her to pay for her own tummy tuck
Surely it should be for the kiddies not the mum I’d ask him if he’s gonna be paying towards babies things too due to giving his ed wife money but other then that he should do as he pleases
I doubt id be impressed lol but if hes made a promise n hes keeping it fair play to him this could completely back fire on u if he was planing something wonderful for you also x
If the money was going to his kids then I’d understand but on her no way tell him to do one why would you buy your ex any cosmetic procedures 🤔🤔 weird
She should be haPpy she has two children created by the air of them. Tummy tuck my arse if anything put it in account for all 3 of his kids and the rest use for u as a couple
He needs to put all his children first, cosmetic surgery isn’t a necessity. It’d be different if it was to benefit the children directly ie deposit for a house or similar
Pathetic..hed be gone..she sounds like a selfish cow.why not spend the money on a nice holiday or something. Why not give it to he’s kids to benefit them and not her?
It would not happen in this house!! 😂 tell the ex to get a job (if she don’t have one) save and pay for her self!!! The kids should benifit..
i wouldnt have kicked him out but id also go crazy if my partner said he was giving his ex half of the money for a tummy tuck, so did they make the choice before they had the kids for her to get a tummy tuck after she had kids? no im sorry thats just wrong yeah fair enough give the kids some money for their future but no so she can have a tummy tuck thats just crazy