PPP So I’m currently sitting in hospital 2 days after major bowel surgery (I hav…
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So I’m currently sitting in hospital 2 days after major bowel surgery (I have Crohns Disease). My partner and dad to our 19 month old calls me and says he’s really struggling because she won’t go to sleep. She has chicken pox and a temperature; I have literally explained everything he should do but he is making me feel helpless and upset actually that I’m unable to do anything at all while he’s sat there saying he’s going to walk out the front door any minute, leaving our daughter behind!… advice would be great at this point!!! Tia x
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He is being incredibly selfish but on the other hand, he’s probably struggling and he’s taking it out on you.. You need to tell him to get a grip and to take five minutes to clear his head! Then restart the battle🙈 He won’t leave her. He knows he can’t leave her and I’m sure everything he’s saying is just out of anger, so try and calm him so he can calm your daughter! Try to not get agitated with him ( easier said that done😂) and reassure him!
Then when you’re better and get to go home, give him a slap!!🙌🏻😂 hope you get better soon and I hope for a fast recovery!!😘 x
What a shame. Sounds like your all going through a rough time at the moment. Are use close to me maybe I could help out somehow. It’s really hard looking after a kid when you realise someone who usually does it all the time isn’t there. Maybe in future he will realise how much you do. Hope your ok with a speedy recovery and let me know if there’s anything I can do if ur near me 😊xx
Tell him to man up, be a parent and to stop putting the pressure on you after a major op! His daughter is poorly! He needs to get a grip
His stressed and worried not only has he got a poorly little one he has a wife who he can’t be with but he is also a man let’s not forget how they cant handle the stress nor multitask. I’m sure he won’t walk out and I’m sure he will cope he is wrong for making u feel like this considering your situation but again not all men think like us I’m sure he will feel bad and apologies once he had chance to gather himself I would be as angry and upset as you would be maybe give a relative a call see if someone can pop round give him hand. All babies want mum when they poorly such a shame he not able to cope and give you the rest you clearly need. Hope he can sort himself out and I hope u heal quickly x
Tell him to grow a pair! There is absolutely no reason for him to worry you over things like that. I understand how helpless, worried and totally worthless you feel right now. I suffer from IBD also ( U.C) and was hospitalised for 15 days. I remember very well how helpless you feel, if his hearts in the right place he will work it out, not stress you out. My partner struggled a little but got there in the end with 2 kids. He will realise how much you do at home and how under appreciated you are. A little full on parenting won’t kill him! Xx
He is probly feeling helpless as well babe but don’t feel bad have you got anyone who can poo round and give him a hand for a few hours babes or has he got a friend who would lend him a hand xxx
wee all get a moment were wee could walk out.. would he do it tho?? he’s prob just having a moment worring about u and then the little one not settling prob wants her mama.. can u FaceTime them or something mayb xx hope u heal asap xx
As soon as you’re fit, dump the selfish bastard. Are either of the nans available to help
What a cunt….. call a relative and ask to take your child then kick him the fuck out.
How selfish of him!!!
Is there anyone that you could ask to go round and try and help settle your daughter ? Otherwise tell him calpol and cuddles on the sofa and tell him to suck it up x
What a selfish prick he needs to man up and see to your child!! You rest up don’t let him stressed you out! He doesn’t sound like a man!! Sounds like a boy
That’s shocking men are so selfish you just had major surgery tell him to go jump and look after he’s daughter ffs
hope you heal quickly from yr sugery.
are u able to face time ? so your little one can see you ?
might help settle her.
can u phone u mom or someone to help out with baby / not everone can cope when stressed and worried hope you feel better soon xx
Words fail me. Selfish git
Hope you get well soon
Tell him to grow a pair!
Do you have any family available to help? x
Won’t his parents or yours help out or a girlfriend