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Private post please My partner has a daughter aged 16.From the moment we got to…

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My partner has a daughter aged 16.From the moment we got together his family were fantastic with me and we had a good relationship. When we had our daughter together things changed. From the her being about 4 months old they turned really funny (she’s 4 years now). It all came to a head last night. My partner was never in a relationship with her Mum he was 18, he always supported her financially and still does but by his own admission he was a crap Dad, if it wasn’t for his family he wouldn’t have seen his daughter on a regular basis. Since we’ve been together he’s stepped up and is a fantastic dad. His family think we’ve been unfair because our daughter together is being brought up different. She’s a real daddy’s girl. Apparently we shouldn’t throw her b day parties, Easter egg hunts xmas eve boxes or anything else along these lines because he didn’t for the first and it’s unfair. I don’t want to stop doing these things for our child just to please them but they won’t even sit and discuss it. I’ve talked to my step daughter about it this morning, she doesn’t have a problem with it, she said she loves getting involved with it all to see her little sister excited. She knows it’s me that actually organisers everything and her dad just goes along with it, it’s not like he goes full out and does it. She said her mum never made an effort with these things so it’s nice seeing it. Advice please, am I doing wrong?
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