Private post please. What would people do in this situation? My mother in la…
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What would people do in this situation?
My mother in law has asked her son (my partner) if we would drop our children over at her house while they have my partners brother & partner over with their 3 children.
We do not at all get on with his brother or partner. There’s been alot of issues between us, due to horrible mean comments about our parenting, how it was out fault our children have medical conditions. They’ve said our children should be taken into care ect. (They even called social services because we put our 10 month old in a toddler bed with advice from health visitors). Soical had no issues with us and said they have no idea why they’d even been called out to visit.
They’ve caused me hell of alot of anxiety issues that I was getting over. I then got a nasty text from the partner saying how MIL bitches about me, how shit I am as a mother and I’m such a liar about things with the girls and I’m over the top. (My 5 month old is anaphylaxic to dairy & touch dairy).
My answer right away is No, I would not bring them over while they are there, especially if I’m not being there. My children have no idea who they are.
Am I being reasonable? Or not? 🙁 I’m panicking like crazy currently because of just thinking of my children around them.
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If they think your over the top about your daughter life threatening allergies then I wouldn’t even let them go. My son went to a nursery in his book was marked saying he had crumpet with butter my son is non ige to cows milk protein soya and wheat I removed him from the nursery as they obviously put him at risk…. allergies alone are hard enough when others don’t believe you
Totally reasonable, you should feel comfortable with the people you leave your kids with and if they are as bad as you’ve said, no way would I allow my babies around them without me❤️
To right why would they want to see kids that they wished was in foster care stick to your guns girl
You are one million percent right! I don’t understand how people can be so cruel hugs for you mum !
I would not let them go.Not after they called social services.x
100% right