PRIVATE POST PLEASE Think i need to open up, and be honnest to myself and any ad…

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PRIVATE POST PLEASE
Think i need to open up, and be honnest to myself and any advice would be appreciated.
So i have been with my partner for 16 years most of which have been ok!!! Looking back now far from perfect but alot better than it is now. He suffers with mental health issues( which he uses constantly as an excuse) hes on daily medication. He drinks most weekends disappears for days uses drugs i suspect (no actual proof) then lies in bed. We have a 3 year old amazing little girl who i do everything with, i work full time pay all the bills he dosent contribute to anything. He can be very verbally abuse aggresive and always turns the situation around on me making me feel like its my fault am not supporting him enough. I am now fully aware of this and can see all these controlling ways he trys to get out of things. Ive asked him to leave to which he responds ive heard it all before- he owns the house but mortage payments come out of my bank and have done for around 5 years just wanted advice do i have to move out or him. I have not shared this with anyone else i am fully aware this is domestic abuse the name calling the throwing things the ignoring me/ phone calls trying to play my daughter agaisnt me. Just need some advice i have limited family support so cant really move in with anyone temporay i have contacted local council for housing and not classes as priority and to rent a property is more expensive and i dont think i would get any housing benefit. Any advice would be appreciated xxxx
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