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Urgent Warning To Anyone Going Through A Custody Battle

Just when I thought things couldn’t get anymore messed up…

PLEASE READ!!! Allow this to be a very urgent warning to anyone going through a custody battle. Or any person in general.

This normal looking charging block has gone in between me and my son’s father’s house for months now with my son’s iPad that he watches movies on.

Today I was reading an article on nanny cams and how helpful they can be. I began to do a fair bit of research on them. That’s when I came across one that was disguised as a usb wall charger. I thought to myself “wow, that looks alot like the one that we use for bean”

Swipe to the second pic, this is the front of the block that appears normal but is just a covering for picture #3 which is in fact a camera.

To say I feel violated and disgusted would be a huge understatement. Think of all the places you use your charging block, when it is in the wall while you’re changing, when you’re showering, when you’re driving. All the time.

This absolutely fucking disgusts me to think that this has been in my house for this fucking long and I have not noticed. I am not afraid of him seeing how I treat my son, as he is very well taken care of. What I am upset about is the fact that I have been watched for months without knowing. I feel extremely violated. I could honestly puke.

For months he’d say “I know more than you think I do” and I honestly just thought people were gossiping about me to him. Little did I know…

To all the parents out there going through a custody battle: please be sure to check EVERYTHING that goes between your two homes so that you do not end up in this situation. Peeping toms don’t have to peek through your window anymore, they’re right inside your home without you even knowing.

The police will be contacted, this will be dealt with and I will be sure to keep everyone updated.

And to whom it may concern: you are a disgusting human being. This is disgusting and so fucking wrong! I hope you are ashamed of yourself!

Update: I certainly did not expect this to blow up as much as it did! Unfortunately the RCMP are not going to do anything just yet, but we’re working on somehow getting him to be held accountable for his actions. At this point, as long as this doesn’t happen to anyone else, that is all that I care about! 💕

If you or someone you know is in an unhealthy relationship please contact victim services toll free at 1-888-579-2888, you are not alone!

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