‼️alcohol‼️ When does this shit ever get to the point enough is enough ? For a y…
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When does this shit ever get to the point enough is enough ? For a year and a half I been telling my partner that he needs to stop drinking so much through out the week and binge drinking too and for a year and a half it’s always ‘yeah I know, I will cut down’ bla bla bla, the latest was on Thursday where he went pub came back fucked off his head and on Friday he promised again to cut down and that he won’t drink through the week but been siting over 4 hours now in a pub. He drinks every couple of days and twice missed work in the morning because he was too fucked to go in from drinking so late . I’m 21+2 pregnant and it’s seriously stressing me out. Wtf do I do?
It’s always ‘I’ll cut Down I promise’ or people saying there’s nothing wrong with drinking every couple days 🙄🙄🙄x
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Can you add please? He says he has no problem and it’s normal for people to drink every couple of days… but it’s Monday and he’s been at the pub since 4 and he also says obviously when the baby comes he won’t drink as much but I have no clue what to do…. 😞
Leave. He needs to hit rock bottom and you don’t want to bring a baby into that envoronment. He doesn’t get to mug you off just because you love him xx
Who ever wrote this post I just broke up with my partner of 5 years and have a 20 month old boy and I lost my other son who would be one years old I have had enough he’s been gone the last 2 days drinking no call or text no sign of him he did this last month to went for days and I took him back this time I have all this things out side in a bag and a note to tell him its over not to text me or ring me he won’t stop drinking or change so ill do what’s best for me and my child and I finished things with him today if you need to talk to anyone you can mail me
Until he wants to stop drinking he never will he will.promise to stop, before the baby comes or before they arrive. Or he will cut down but it wont happen leave untill he realises what he has to lose. Ive been threw this feel.free 2 message x
while he wont admit he has a problem he wont stop drinking.to be missing work due to drinking indicates a problem but if he wont recognise it he wont get any help to stop either hes in denial by the sound of it
He’s an alcoholic, look up Alcoholics Anonymous meetings online and go along to one with him. He needs to address this problem. For support for yourself go along to al-anon meetings. Also see what drug and alcohol services are in your area as he’ll most like let have a physical dependency and will need to cut down and detox with support and possibly medication as stopping cold turkey can be life threatening. Please message me if you need any support. X x x
Well he will continue with this as there are no consequences. ….you have some thinking to do
Tell him to get help or leave i wouldn’t want that round my child