️ Private post please ️ I have just recently found something out about my husba…

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I have just recently found something out about my husband who I have been with 20 years. We have children together although they are grown up 2 of them still teenagers and live at home. There are a lot of issues within the family home, arguments everyday, bullying, controlling and mental abuse. I have spoke to 2 of my children and they have confided that they hate their dad and just want me to be happy. I’ve decided I have to leave him for the sake of my children and me. My children come first and foremost so I have to think of what’s best for them and not me. The problem I have is I’m registered disabled, have a couple of illnesses and I have never had to survive on my own. I wouldn’t know how to pay a bill ( I know that sounds pathetic ) because he’s always done it. I wouldn’t know how we’d survive financially and I don’t know where to start regarding housing us. My children are my world and all I want is for them to live happily and comfortably . I’m not asking for hand outs or benefits I just need to know where I could help from. Also I’m aware that there is no legal aid anymore but I really need to be completely seperated/divorced from this man. He’s ruined my life for 20 years and from day 1 started controlling me. I can’t spend another god knows how many years with him. What he has done is unforgivable and I feel such a let down to people involved. Also need to add that myself and my children both want to move away but will wait till after Christmas before we tell him. Only because I don’t want to spoil their Xmas or others. Plus I am worried I won’t be able to buy presents for the children if I leave before.
Please please please help with any advice
Thank you xx
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