anonymous post: my little boy is 2 and a half, his dad is wanting him over night…
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anonymous post: my little boy is 2 and a half, his dad is wanting him over night on a weekend when he is currently house jumping, this meaning my little boy would be sharing a bed with either dad or cousins of other sex and older age to him… at home we have a structured bed time routine, in his own room and is settled… am I wrong to say no?? I feel the bad one but I want structure and routine for him and this clearly isn’t going to happen, it’s not even every weekend he wants him sometimes just for the day but it’s me doing all the running about never on time or late bringing him home… has anyone gone through court order or anything like so to arrange something? I’m thinking it’s my only option
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another reply thanks: I wouldn’t have an issue with then Sharing a bed if that was what I done 6nights out of the 7 myself but I do not both children and their parents need alone time, but that 1 night a week screws up my whole routine I’ve got in place for him as he then wants to sleep in mammys bed.. dad doesn’t have his own place to it’s not even a full structure it’s one place one week another the next so very out of routine and structure
can you reply back, I have tried discussing this and in doing so it kicked off big style, he had stopped paying maintance and is now using this against me to pay legal fees for himself…? he also has no means of transport to collect of pick our son up and bus doesn’t seem a option for him and has previously driven without insurance been caught twice now so I have said no to him using Someone else’s car without proof of insurance?
If he wants his child then his child has to have his own bed n i think the courts will agree. Mayb talk to his dad n tell him u dont want him sharing a bed with someone, or write a letter n copy it for ur own records n send it to him that way u have a paper trail if he doesnt like what uve said then yeah id take it to court
I don’t see the problem with the child sharing a bed with his dad.