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I need some advice, my son’s godfather is a close family friend, he’s been one of my partners best friends for many years, he’s basically as close to our family as anyone can get. We’ve found out yesterday, through my partners dad, that our friend has been seeing my sister in law, it’s not been going on for long and from what our friend has said nothing has happened, they’ve just hung out abit. Now, understandably my partners dad is fuming, he now hates our friend, and to be honest I’m incredibly angry about the situation too. I feel like it’s a complete betrayal of trust, my partner has been through this before with his other sister and it ended badly and he was put in the middle of it. Our friend has said that he’s not sure how he feels, and he’s going with the flow, but frankly no matter what happens someone will get hurt. My partner has said he’s not happy about it but can’t tell them they can’t see each other cos if he does they’ll just do it anyway, whereas I feel our friend should have more respect for my partner than that and should never have started seeing his sister to begin with. Our friend is an adult, works full time but still lives at home, my sister in law isn’t even 18 yet, is in college and also still lives at home, she’s also been through some difficult times in the last few years. I can’t see a way this will go well because someone will get hurt and it’ll come back on my partner like it did last time. Am I wrong for thinking our friend should have more respect for my partner and my family than to start dating my teenage sister in law? I will be speaking to him this week and making my concerns clear..
Sorry if it doesn’t make sense, trying to make sense of it all..
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