Can I get a private post please: I need some serious advice My husband left me …
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Can I get a private post please:
I need some serious advice My husband left me almost 10 weeks ago. This will be the second time in 6 years. I still love him with all my heart but on Friday I did something silly and slept with an ex boyfriend. He found out and it’s broke his heart. I feel bad.
He did move in with a girl 8 years younger than him after he left me, and was telling me she was a nicer person than me etc. All to hurt me. He literally broke me into pieces.
But now he’s decided he misses me and our family and he wants to come back.
I honestly think me sleeping with someone else made him realise but one minute he says he wants me back, the other he can’t forget me sleeping with someone else so he would never get back with me, and then he doesn’t know how the minute later.
I know no one can tell me what to do but I’m scared to let him back in really in case it all happens again in another 5 years.
I know he’s confused but so am I. I haven’t really done anything wrong I am single and I was at the time, I was 100% loyal to him all the way through.
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So let me get this straight , he moved in with someone else but his heart is broken by you having sex with another man ???? He doesn’t know if he can get over it????
Seriously honey what the actual fu**?
I know you say you love him but this man wants to have his cake and eat it too!
Sounds like he’s trying to make you feel guilty and turning the situation around so it’s about you sleeping with someone else. He left you remember. You weren’t together so were free to do as you please. Him leaving you once is forgivable but twice? Tell him to not contact you until he knows what he wants for definite, he’s messing with your head. The time without him filling your head with nonsense might give you some perspective x
You were single when you slept with someone else!
And you know what, good on you!
If I were you, I would tell him, he made his choice when he left you!
He won’t change.
He definitely wants to exert control over you and play with your emotions hon.
Remember, he has left you, twice!
Be strong, and move on.
That’s what I’d do ❤️xx
He’s playing mind games. He doesn’t want anyone else to have you!!
He obviously had slept with this other girl after moving in with her etc….
In my opinion, if you wasn’t together and he’d left then you really have nothing to feel bad about. If you both want to make it work then let go of everything in the past and start fresh.
Come on girl your worth so much more! You’ve done nothing wrong at all. He is the fuck up! Donkey punch him in the balls, buy a new outfit and remember who the fuck you are! Girl power!!! Xx
Once it’s hard to deal with twice means that he is taking you for a fool. You are worth more then this. Be brave be bold and be strong
Dr phil would tell u no don’t take him back and future predictions are based on past experiences so if he’s done this once there is a good chance he could do it again 🙁
Hunny, he’s just playing mind games with you, he knows you have moved on and slept with someone else. Don’t be his dormat please.
No, he doesn’t want you but he doesn’t want anyone else to have you either!
no he is playing u he still wants u to think he cares but fir him to move in with someone dose it nt make u think he was cheating on u. u both nd to.let go if there r kids involved then b nice for them but other then that. I would take it day by day moving on and when ur ready think of a new relationship but he is defo playing u as if it dose nt work out with this one he can always come bk to u never play 2nd best to no one
I’m sure when he left you he’d have slept with the other women it should be can you forgive him not other way round
I agree with Gail Galloway and Kelsey Lintern