Can I have a post please? My partner gets asked to go out all the time and tha…

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Can I have a post please?

My partner gets asked to go out all the time and that’s fine because I love him having a social life. However we take it in turns to do the nights with our little girl. Like he’ll do one night and I’ll do the next ect.

But I’m not yet ready to part with the baby as I suffer with post natal depression and find it really hard to separate from the baby (she’s 4 months)

So he’ll organise a baby sitter for his night to have the baby so that he can say to me “oh well there’s an option of a baby sitter so it’s not my fault, I can get somebody to have him, it’s just you being stupid”

I feel disrespected by it and i feel like he’s using the point that I can’t give the baby up to go out even more because he knows I struggle even when somebody haves the baby for an hour or so.

I feel forced into having to give up my own baby for the night just so he can enjoy himself.

Am I being silly because he can get a babysitter? I can explain a lot more if you comment that you’d like me to inbox you, if I put too much on here, there’ll be somebody who snitches to him as it’s happened a few times. Thankyou x
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