Can I have a post please How do people deal with their 11 year old girls and the…
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How do people deal with their 11 year old girls and their attitude? Past few months I’ve been struggling with my daughter she has such an attitude on her and I find myself telling her off so much, she is also very lazy, everything is to much effort and her room is always a mess, all she seems to want to do is sit on her phone or watch tv unles shes out with her friends, she has a bike and never uses it always has excuses. I don’t make her do anything around the house i only ask for her to keep her room averagely tidy but she just always trashes it. She speaks to me like crap and has also thinks it’s funny to kick me lately, she causes rows with me n my partner who has been there since she was a baby because her constant attitude, we used to be so close but lately I feel as tho I don’t even want to be around her as I’m fed up of it, she can act like a different kid around other family members at times but can also sometimes be rude to them to…. What can I do and should I be giving her chores etc? Please help I’m at my wits end, feel like I’m failing
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take her phone off her, make her do a job a day. it being the dishes or taking the bin out or tidy her room. I always give my daughter a job, to show her the house doesn’t run itself. and if she refuses or gives me attitude I make her go to bed early and not watch her tv. she will do homework and then go to bed. no treats keep her from going out until her attitude changes. if you don’t now she will think it’s acceptable and it will get harder the older she is. They have to realise the value of things. not think she can rule the house. she is only a kid. your the adult so, start showing her she has to earn things.
I think you have probably just described a totally normal 11 year. I have a 9 year old girl and the attitude is creeping in. I know how it feels to always think you will have this close bond with your child and it feels like she is slipping away. Only thing I would say is her kicking is so not acceptable and that must have serious consequences. Why would you want to be around her if she treats you like, so don’t feel guilty. Xxx
My 13yr old like this, I take her phone off her, and I’ve started giving her jobs everyday and if she cuts corners I make her do them all over again, like this morning she’s emptied her bag out on the dining table and rather than clean it like I normally would it’s waiting for her to do when she gets home from school, also I switch the wifi off at night time so she gets a better sleep rather than being on her phone or comp late at night and since then she gets herself up at 6am every morning for a shower b4 school, pick your battles aswell I know it’s hard when they’re constantly gobbing it to you but try not to react to everything it’s hormones, good luck
Could have wrote this myself! Even taking things don’t work just makes her worse because in her eyes “I already took what she wants so she’s nufin to lose ” 😡😡
Take the phone or internat access off her, give her a chores list to be done each day. If it’s not done she does without the phone the next day. Works a treat
Take away the phone and take everything out of her room
Ground her and take her phone charger off her when her battery is at 1% shell be begging you for it and do anything per chore give her 10 minutes of charging time 😊
First take the phone of her male her clean the room or get a sacl of blacl bags and trow it all out