Can I have a pp please ? As a single mum working in a very physical mental and e…
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Can I have a pp please ? As a single mum working in a very physical mental and emotional draining job and having 2 children and lots of other things getting on top of me I eventually broke down and admitting to my ex I was struggling and our son who is 8 was being a terror !! I had to take time off work and asked for help and my son went to his dads as he said it’s easy doin what you do give him to me. I was that low I said take him I need a break from life I was so low I was seriously considering hurting myself. It’s been over a week now and he’s telling me when I can and can’t have access to my son and seems to be thriving off the fact I broke. There’s no one else involved no social services police nothing…. basically I’m feeling better now back in work and all that’s missing is my son. I don’t think he’s going to give me him back. He calls me a bad mum because I asked for help and admitted I couldn’t cope. He says I’m allowed to have him tomorrow… then have take him back to his house. Can he refuse to give me my son back ?? If I just keep him tomorrow then next time he has our son he will refuse give him to me he’s petty like that. If I ask him he will tell me I can’t have her back. Where do I stand ?? Any advice will be greatly appreciated thank you x
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Had this with my ex was in a really bad way I asked for help he was living with friends he actually made me sign a piece of paper to say he will decide if I’m “fit and mentally capable” of having my son back in 5 weeks.. anyway I was better he refused took me a couple more weeks to get him to let me have him for the day we’ll I kept him, I didn’t take him back, he rang the police and because my LB was in a safe environment they were satisfied I showed them the paper he laughed as it wasn’t legit.. he took advantage of my mental state anyway I asked for some support I was scared he’d take him from me so social services got involved and were a massive support got me on the right path..
You’ll be fine when you have him tomorrow just don’t give him back your his main carer if you like your his mum! I know dad’s have rights but don’t let him take advantage of the situation because you asked for help.
Stay strong! Xx
Not beeing funny lo if ur going call aexsaying you can’t cope and what not then he obvs going not wanna give him back! And not beeing funny most men u can’t trust now days! Ether way hope u sort it
When you get your son back tomorrow, keep him and get the ball rolling for a custody order while you are awaiting court!
If on birth certificate not alot u can do but go court
Just don’t send him back to his dad when you get him