Can I have a PP please in scans etc x Ok so have 2 children, 1 by my current pa…
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Can I have a PP please in scans etc x
Ok so have 2 children, 1 by my current partner of 6 years, their 6 and 1. Also this year had 2 miscarriages.
I’ve just found out that I’m pregnant again, I wasn’t gonna tell my partner until I was past the danger zone but I thought that was unfair on him and I need the support. Baby wasn’t planned but looking at the dates it was conceived between the miscarriage ending and me starting the pill.
Partner didn’t take it well, I told him yesterday and told him to not reply just let it sink in for a few days then we’ll talk (I had to do that) he got really annoyed and said it’s simple we’ll have to have an abortion, he’s not ready for another can’t cope with the two we have and I’m not in the right mindset for one I need to sort my head out first and stop trying to fill the void I’m being selfish. I said there’s no way I’m having an abortion (and the discussion continued, no raised voices just his cross face) I promised to go to the doctors in the new year for counselling (needed it for a while tbh) and I’ll start trying to lose weight etc but he literally wouldn’t listen, he even mentioned us breaking up I think I couldn’t really tell tbh. He said it’s both our decisions but was determined that we’re having an abortion. Eventually after him being moody and horrible, I told him straight I’m not having an abortion end of and he just shrugged in acceptance I guess?
I don’t know if he’s just scared that’s why he’s so against it, because he said he’s not talking names or having early scans because we don’t know what’s gonna happen this time, or if he’s hoping I have another miscarriage? He said he doesn’t want to talk about any of it yet until we know it’s happening which I fully get, but he then was cuddly with me at night and mentioned that I’m pregnant so I don’t know what to think? I’m so scared and already worried so much as it is.
Help? 😞 I’m so scared about everything x
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