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Can I have a ppp. Basically I just need some reassurance and advice. I’ve come t…

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Can I have a ppp. Basically I just need some reassurance and advice. I’ve come to the decision that I have to leave my partner and father of my 2 children who are 2 years old and 4 months old. He’s verbally abusive on a daily basis, he will criticise and moan about everything and anything, the Christmas decorations are apparently only for me and why do I fucking bother, dinner is either no flavour, over cooked, boring etc, I don’t clean well enough, you name it it’s not good enough. We argue daily and I worry about the affect this has on my children and now my 2 year old has said to me ‘daddy naughty’ so I asked why is daddy naughty and she replied ‘daddy naughty daddy talk bad’ I think this is due to his constant raised voice and shouting at me. So I know I have to leave for my children. He is a good father to them and hands on it’s just me he’s nasty to. We privately rent a 3 bed house what will happen if he leaves. I work but cannot cover all the out goings on my wage. I’ve never claimed benefits but think I may have to. How would I even go about it? What maintenance would he have to pay? And what sort of custody agreement do you have? It breaks my heart that I will have to share my children in two homes but it’s not a healthy happy household and I worry about the affect it will have on their mental health as they get older and understand so that’s why I need to leave. It’s mentally and emotionally exhausting being with him and I’m constantly on egg shells. Please don’t bash I’m so heart broken about the whole thing but my children come first and always will
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  • I would say definitely leave now especially while the children are younger I made the mistake staying with my children’s dad and sometimes now I feel they resent me your thinking right by not staying in an abusive relationship and the children picking up on daddy being bad now it really does affect the children later on in life if you leave it any longer the suffering for you all becomes worse

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  • So sorry you’re going through this
    You can contact Centrelink and you’ll have to contact child support… it goes off what he earns
    How much does he earn?

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