Can I have a PPP? It’s going to be long so please bare with me. I’ll try not to…

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Can I have a PPP?
It’s going to be long so please bare with me. I’ll try not to make it confusing.

My stepsister is 36 weeks pregnant she’s 30 years old.
I’m 33 weeks pregnant and 20 years old.

My stepsister ( her mother says my father is not his daughter. So my SS knows she’s not my real (SS).

Anyway she got pregnant on a one night stand and told this man she is having his baby, he wants to be involved has offered money her essentials and baby essentials but she’s refusing to let him be there for his baby. She has a boyfriend 3 weeks and says that the baby will be calling him dad.

She is involved with social services and is depending on them for everything. When I say everything I mean she hasn’t bought even 1 single Nappy or Pack of baby wipes when I ask her she says oh I’m going to get I’m social worker to get me them they Said there going to help me out. Including baby food, cot , pram , clothes and all the baby’s necessities. The social workers claimed her incapable of looking after her unborn baby and have made arrangements for her to go to a mother and baby unit.

She went shopping last week and I mentioned to her she should buy some stuff for the baby her reply was “ it’s going to be your niece or nephew you should be buying my baby stuff”
I’m unemployed at the moment because I was very ill and deemed high risk at the start of my pregnancy so I’m only able to provide everything for my baby. I can’t afford to buy all her baby’s stuff and pay my bills etc.
But this day she went shopping she never bought the baby anything but she bought herself all her essentials and luxury’s for hospital.

Now she’s asking what I’m calling my little boy and I said my chosen name along with my dads name and now she’s saying if she has a boy she will be calling it after my father also.

She knows I’m having a very difficult time with my father being very ill and also elderly. Also having problems with my pregnancy with not having a very active baby ( I’m visiting consultant every week)
And every day she’s messaging that her baby is moving so much, and her new partner is so good and can’t wait for him to be a dad.

I’m sorry maybe I sound jealous or rude but I just hate how she’s depending on social workers to buy everything for her baby and telling me I should buy stuff for her baby when as mothers we are all trying to get by and make sure our kids have everything.
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