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Can I have a ppp what are people’s veiws on this. I had asked my partner to come to my nans on Saturday to drop off their Christmas presents and then we would go to his mams and drops there’s off, he said ok and then last night he said oh my friend has asked me to help him with his Christmas shopping on Saturday, I said well you said you would come with us and drop the presents off at my nans and your mams and he said he didn’t want to and it was his Christmas aswell. Why bother saying yes to coming then say no? Now it’s caused a argument. He won’t come to my grans to pop in and say hello on Christmas Day when me and our son go for our Christmas dinner he’s going to his mams. He was invited but he won’t come because he left me in may and got with someone else straight away and my family had a problem with it but since getting back together my gran has asked about him coming over for Sunday dinners etc but he won’t come. None of my family have layed eyes on him since may when he left me. I had planned on taking my son over to his mams after Christmas dinner at my grans which is a 30 minute or so walk but I’ve said if he can’t be bothered to make the effort to come see one family member then I’m not spending my Christmas walking a hour there and back to his mams if they want to see him they can come here over Christmas. His family hasn’t been here in at least 2 years. I go to my nans because she’s housebound. It’s like this every time mates over me, his mate says jump he says how high it’s absolutely ridiculous. And to top it off he’s started slipping back to his old ways wanting to go out drinking a few times a week, this morning I got up for our son for nursery and told him to get up he didnt wake up until 12 when i woke up because he was taking the p*ss and my son had his jabs a hour later he still didn’t move out of bed until 15 minutes before we had to leave and was winging that he didn’t know why he had to come. At the end of the day our son is 3, super sensitive and autistic, a bit of support shouldn’t be a problem. I’m just fed up it’s Christmas in 3 days and he’s annoyed me already. Oh and as for him saying it’s his Christmas too…Saturday is not Christmas it’s the day before Christmas Eve and we have a son Christmas isn’t all about him! He doesn’t need to shop I have bought and payed for everything, he doesn’t have a penny to buy anything so it’s not like he even has to hold his friends hand to go shopping. We already had issues when I asked him not to drink on Christmas Day and come back home with us and spending the rest of the day with our son and his toys, wow why that even has to be a issue I don’t know. On his second Christmas he didn’t even bother coming home until late on Christmas night drunk. I spent the afternoon/evening alone with my son.
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