can i have a ppp sorry for a long post. and sorry if its messy our kid are 4 y…

[ad_1]
can i have a ppp

sorry for a long post. and sorry if its messy

our kid are 4 years old and have been in pre school for the last year. Last december. Last year me and my hubby made friends 2 other couples with kids in the same year.
Couple 1 and us reallly got on well togehter and had takeout tuesdays (and drinks) for about 4 months. Couple 2 came for play dates on tuesday and wednesdays at our house (we are on the way home from school)

Then all of a sudden couple 1’s “dad” started to avoid me (as in walking really slow on school runs, not saying “hey” and was generally awekward (imo). Couple 1’s mum still is saying “hello” and liking posts on facebook

Couple 2 are still liking posts on facebook.

I have been a stay at home mum for 4 years and i got a new job. noone even said “grats” or liked the post
I had a big birthday and noone bothered to say grats.
I invite them to play dates and i have asked both couple what is wrong but no reply

my kid loves (especilly) couple 1 and their child. they obv love couple 2 as well, just not as much.

last week couple 1’s mummy had a birthday and today i see that they all had a birthday party for couple 2’s dad. Pictures and so on with the 2 of them. We wasn’t even invited.

Hubby says just to ignore and it’s nothing to care about, but i was bullied for 15 years in school. I had an abusive relationship before hubby (and i was partly alcoholic just to put up with it). I am currently on anti depressant (citalopram) and i cant help feeling like they are technically bullying my child!

come september our child with be in the same class as couple 1’s child but not couple 2.

I don’t really know what i am after. The only thing i feel now is anger. why can’t my kids be happy. i’m sure its something i have done without realising but i am so angry! why can’t i ever be happy. why do my kids have to suffer!!

Am i completly wrong? Why can’t they just tell me what i did. I don’t even care if i invited. i can sit by myself on a play date just as long as my kids are happy
[ad_2]

Source