Can I have a private post please for a friend . I am a male so I know mothers p…

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Can I have a private post please for a friend .

I am a male so I know mothers points of view might end up in me getting harsh comments . I have a 4 week old with my ex girlfriend . And I’ve been there throughout the pregnancy, and the birth and I see her every week twice a week. Basically last week we had a argument because I took my daughter to my grandmas for her birthday, my grandma is quite old so she probably won’t see my daughter into her teens . Anyway I took her there & I was arranging getting there getting back, also offered my daughters mum a taxi home so they didn’t have to go out in the cold. But she had this big issue with bringing her back late (5) o’clock, which I understood so I tried my best to get her back for her mum. Because of this she told me I’m not allowed to see her without her being there & that if I don’t accept that it has to be through a contact centre . I understand that she is annoyed I didn’t tell her as soon as she turned up to drop my daughter off but it’s my time with my child and I still told her before I went. Anyway 2 nights ago she took our 4 week old to a party &+ there was people drinking , there was disco lights , also a bar and she didn’t bring her home until half 1 in the morning. I don’t find this acceptable at all, she’s only just turned 4 weeks and hasn’t had her jabs yet nor will she have a strong enough amune system to be out in this weather let alone at half 1 in the morning.i am on the birth certificate and have asked my daughters mum if I can have her every 2 weeks for the weekend as I do work and also see her only twice a week so would like to spend more time with her without her mum breathing down my neck. Now I get she’s a new parent and I know people will say she’s still young needs her mum but I am also her dad and need to learn to cope on my own without her shouting at me every 2 minutes if I don’t do things as quick as she does. I try my best with my daughter I’m not perfect but she’s my first and I’m learning on my own where as my ex has her mum do everything for her , when my daughter was poorly I offered her to come and stay so I could help,when she’s got no money for milk nappies ect I ALWAYS put my hand in my pocket and I buy my daughter things even when I don’t need to. But my daughters mum seems to ask me nearly every couple of days telling me She’s nearly out of milk but then 2 days later she’s out drinking ? I just want to see my daughter but she’s now refusing unless she is there can I just say she wants to be with me to and the only reason she put me on the bc was because she thought we could get back together .there is two sides to every story but I’m not asking for belief I’m just asking for advice, what rights do I have and what can I do to grant access to see my daughter . I feel like I have to be up my ex’s arse or make her think we have a chance just so I can see her . Please no bashing as I’m asking for advice about rights & what I can do .

Thankyou
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