Can I have a private post please how do u deal with over baring mother in laws m…
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Can I have a private post please how do u deal with over baring mother in laws mine has always been involved to much I wasn’t good enough I treated her son like dirt our son passed away she told him it wasn’t goin to work again. Instead of sending him home on Christmas day 2 months after our son was born sleeping noin we jus argued she took him out getting pissed pointing out women to talk to then made the point to telling me the day after. She has always made it about her our sons death how our relationship breaking down was making her life hell and she couldn’t deal with it the lot, she’s quite happy for him to be depressed and sit in his room Al day every day and do nothing as long as he isn’t with me, because when we don’t get on “she cant deal” when we had a rocky patch after our son he moved home she was sayin if he came back he was out and wouldn’t be coming back, she messaged me telling me shel make sure he doesn’t come back because he’d out my leuge the lot. I’m pregnant it was our sons birthday and he had a bad turn with his mental health we were arguing and he went back to his mums for a bit ti spare the kids the animosity, within a day of him goin home she was at my house telling me he doesn’t love me and hasn’t since our son died how we arnt going to make it work and I need to accept its over. He on the other hand was saying completely different that it’s not a good time to be bickering with me being as far as I am he Stil loves me but we both need help to deal with our son and he wants to support me but give us both time, she carried on telling me it’s over even messaged me telling me SURLEY I should no it’s over by now and to get a grip, whenever I go to drop my daughter of she comes out and stands listening or if I directly ask my fiancé a question shel answer. Last night after a month of space he came round to talk, we didn’t talk much but got on alot better and decided that it’s best to slowly work on it because it wasn’t and I don’t want to give it up and neither does he after 4 years. We’ve decided he’d not moving back but wel see each other and take it easy while I get the council in and deal with my issues so I don’t take it out in him and hel be there whenever I need him through the pregnancy or helping at home but not jump in, this morning iv gone to drop our daughter of and he’s come out fumin. I asked what was wrong he said his mums bein kicking of all morning about us saying it’s not happening and she won’t put up with it and she wants to no what’s happening now because she won’t have it, he’s 24 I’m 27 I don’t no how to deal with it right now any advice will be appreciated
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