can i have a private post please… I have been my partner for 3 years, we got together, had a baby and got married very quickly. we lost a baby at 5 months pregnant about a year and a half ago now. we seem to have struggled to get our relationship back on track. On friday, he and my friend stayed up together while i went to bed, i woke up and the door was shut where they were together. I walked in and they jumped apart but i didnt see anything. Today I asked my husband about this, and he got extremely defensive. I only asked him nicely, i didnt have an argument with him, and he packed his stuff and left to his dads. He leaves us everytime something happens between us that may cause confrontation. Its breaks my heart everytime and i really struggle to stop myself crying in front of my daughter. I dont know why im writing this, i guess i just need someone to talk to.