Can I have a private post please I jus can’t let this drop been woth my other ha…

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Can I have a private post please I jus can’t let this drop been woth my other half nearly 4 years most of his family took them on his dad’s side never fully involved themselves with my girls but they used to go round the house and every Christmas they have got a present of his gran and his aunty something little like pjs or a book ect for 3 years in a row last year we had a daughter together they spent over 100 pounds on her and bought my eldest two a Princeas book and frozen book of his auntie and a doll each of his gran. This year my partner. Came home and said non of the kids are having anything this year because we’ve basically got to many kids (I was expecting) and they all can’t afford it. I said ok then he turned up with over 100 pound of gifts and money for our youngest. I said I thought they weren’t getting anything he said wel ye there obviously goin to buy there granddaughter something so I said oh so my kids get left out. He said wel they jus don’t c them as my real kids. I got upset because my 7 year old found her presents read the label and said oh grandma got me a doll last year and I had to say yes but this year she could only get your little sister something. I said to him I don’t think it’s fair to have bought them stuff 3 years straight then jus stop because they have biological grandchildren. (he’d brought them up from being babys) there biological dad is in jail for nearly killing his ex gf. He kicked of sayin I was out of order and his mum then text saying I was out of order and basically the whole family have fallen out with me. It was my daughters birthday 2 days ago my 5 year old he’s gone his grans today he’s turned up with loads of money and bags and bags of gifts from his auntie and gran for our newborn. Of course sein presents my 5 year old went rushing over and he had to say oh no there not urs there ur little sisters from grandma. I seen the exact disappointment on her face as my eldest. Also they havnt met my youngest because I’m never invited round my other half jus said I’m not not invited it’s jus they don’t ask but he’s never told me and been round 4 times since my youngest has been born and havnt took her because he doesn’t feel comfortable takin her out on his own. Iv jus got a bit upset about ir and said I feel like me and the kids are always gonna be left behind now and it’s always goin to be you and our youngest two included in that side of the family and us left behind. (my elder two used to always go round until our daughter was born then he started takin jus her saying there’s not enough room fof all of them. He’s jus kicked of sayin he’s sick of me and my morbid shit that this is my issues because I’m adopted that I’m disgusting and he’s had enough of me slaggin his family of there not doin anything wrong and it’s jus be bein a major bitch and ungrateful. Am I wrong for getting annoyed with this should I let it go.
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