Can I have a private post please I jus want opinions. Iv been with my partner 4 …

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Can I have a private post please I jus want opinions. Iv been with my partner 4 years he met me when my eldest was 3 and youngest was 1 they adore him and see them as his dad (there biological dad is currently serving time in prison for rapping and trying to kill his ex) social was involved heavily and won’t even entertain contact supervised for him and told me its best his never involved. He abused me quite bad through pregnancy including trying to punch me in my bump sayin hel rip our youngest out of me. So my partner took them on and so did his family they alway went to his mums grans the lot and for the past 3 Christmass his auntys from his dad’s side and gran have always bought them a Christmas present each and been involved in there life his dad hasn’t been involved enough to bond he’s nice enough to the never blanks them and if we ever see him out (for instance,) we went to a fun day and he paid fod a bouncy castle go for them and some sweets and iv respected that because it’s completely his choice. We have a one year old together and due again in a few days as iv said the first year my oldest two got chocolate selection box each the second a doll each of the gran and a pair of pjs each and a book each of his aunty and last year my youngest got 50 of each of them and my daughters again got pjs and a book (I fully understand them splashing out but they included my older ones so I respected it. This year my partner came home and said no ones getting anything this year because theyv said we’ve got to many kids. I said ok fair enough (who am I to say they should throw money at them) he said it includes our one year old and the baby I said ok. Christmas day he took our 1 year old to his grans and came back with 50 pound of his dad for her and 50 of his gran and pjs slippers and clothes of his aunty I said I thought they weren’t getting out he said wel they havnt got the baby. Iv bit my tongue until my eldest read the cards and said oh has grandma got us presents. I had to say no. Iv brought it up with him and he’s come out with yes wel there not there real family.. There not my real kids his family doesn’t have to do anything with them and I’m shocking for expecting i explained if it was it from day one I’d get it but to cut them out after 3 Christmass it’s not fair and if that’s the case I’d rather them sort out a savings for our youngest instead of me having to explain it when it comes to next year when the baby gets something. and he come out with of course the babys goin to get something there there grandchildren what would you do
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